Lost and Found
---Henry Nouwen The Return of the Prodigal Son: A Story of Homecoming
The longer of today’s gospel reading includes the Parable of the Prodigal Son. Because we will hear that parable again in the season of Lent, I have decided to save it for later; however, I will mention it, since it is known by every Christian. It has a unique place with the other two parables: the Parable of the Lost Coin and the Parable of the Lost Sheep. Atonement is the common thread that unites these three parables. For those who need brushing up in theological-speak, atonement is God’s action to save humanity through Christ’s sacrifice. An easier way to think of atonement is at-one-ment; that we are united to God through the suffering and death of Christ who sacrificed himself for humanity.
Both parables today end with the idea that the salvation of a single sinner is vital. Put another way: God is saying, “I’m saving humanity one soul at a time.”
Often when we consider salvation, we think of a blanket of mercy encompassing the entire globe, kind of like a divine dome of safety. But what today’s gospel parables suggest is a very personal salvation, of God seeking the one who needs to be found. It is the personal image of the shepherd placing the lost sheep on his shoulders and carrying it home; it is the picture of a woman who has lost one of ten coins lighting a lamp and sweeping the house for the single lost coin. God’s salvation is universally offered not through a vast network of spiritual energy, but as an individual initiative.
The personal aspect is further enhanced, though, with the very clear notion that God is in pursuit of us. He is looking for us like some beleaguered shepherd or a miserly woman who refuses to give up a single coin; there is no “acceptable loss” count with God. That God seeks the individual is tough for us to imagine. The eternal creative and redemptive force of the universe worries that a single human might slip through the cracks unnoticed is extraordinary. Very often I encounter people who say with great exasperation, “I looked, and I haven’t found God.” The good news, I tell them, is that is okay, He is looking for you, too, and I doubt he will fail. They look at me incredulously and usually say something like “If that is true, what is taking so long.” I put my hand on their shoulder, and say “Welcome home; you are found.”
Being found by God isn’t what most people think. It isn’t accompanied by the trumpet sounds of angels or a large hand descending through the clouds to tap one on the shoulder. Rather, it is that we are found, slip away, and are found again in a cosmic game of hide-and-go-seek with God. We are found, experience the joy of a new love and then are drawn away when times get tough, or things go wrong, and wonder why God isn’t with us. God is always with us and has never left since the day we opened our heart to Him. Rumi, that great Sufi mystic tells of God’s closeness:
God is "what is nearer to you than your neck-vein,"
You have cast the arrow of speculation afar off.
O you, who have made ready your bow and arrows,
The game is close to you, and you shoot too far off.
The further a man shoots, the further off he is,
And the more removed from the treasure he seeks.
The philosopher kills himself with thinking,
Tell him that his back is turned to that treasure;
Tell him that the more he runs to and fro,
The further he is removed from his heart's desire.
The Almighty says, "Make efforts in our ways,"
Not "Make efforts away from us," O restless one.
You have cast the arrow of speculation afar off.
O you, who have made ready your bow and arrows,
The game is close to you, and you shoot too far off.
The further a man shoots, the further off he is,
And the more removed from the treasure he seeks.
The philosopher kills himself with thinking,
Tell him that his back is turned to that treasure;
Tell him that the more he runs to and fro,
The further he is removed from his heart's desire.
The Almighty says, "Make efforts in our ways,"
Not "Make efforts away from us," O restless one.
Finally, God is in the image of the Prodigal Son’s father who has sighted his son from afar, and lifts up his garment and runs out to greet him. How can God find us again? Sit still. Open your heart and call to mind who last showed you love, and to whom you loved last; God is in your midst.